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Thursday, February 14, 2008
I love you!!!
I love you for giving me the opportunity to love

I love you for letting him come into my life

I love you for making me know that he is the only one that completes me

I love you for not making him run away after seeing the weird side of me

I love you for teaching him the ways to calm me down when am nuts

I love you for the beautiful understanding that we share

I love you for making him the only one that can put a smile on my face,when am angry

I love you for making him pick me up,when i fall

I love you for making him the shoulders i can cry on

I love you for making him love me,cos i know he does

I love you for not letting temptation push him away from me

I love you for making him stand out in my life

I love you for making a BRIGHT FUTURE for us

I love you for making us love you

Happy Valentine's Day to all my blog fam.


posted by LurLar @ 8:43 AM   17 comments
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
At Last!!!
First of all,lemme start by saying Happy new Year to all my readers,and blog fam. 4months vacation no easy at How are u all doing? I know u r fine by God's grace,and if you are not,know in your that it's going to be well in Jesus Name.

Mehn....I have to say a big thank you all of you that got me back in here,cos when i read my comments,i just can't help but feel the love,but anyways,am back.

My Blog most likely will take a new turn dis year,i want to reach out. I have some ideas,but still do u guys have any ideas of ways to reach out? What's going on in blogville? Mehn everywhere is just dry...well we still got some faithfull pple that update reguraly which i really admire them for it.

Finally I choose to update today cos it's my BIRTHDAY!!! Happy Birthday to me,and i hope this year brings more joy and happiness to me.


posted by LurLar @ 8:01 AM   13 comments
Monday, November 5, 2007
Gone till........
Hello Eveyone....i apologize for not responding to all comments. I also apologize for updating late,things are just happening lately that,i can't even think straight. Am going to stop blogging for a while...then get my head refreshed. Am going to miss everyone so much. Oya sparkle wipe ur I will come by ur blogs to leave comments. Thank You.


posted by LurLar @ 2:05 PM   22 comments
Sunday, October 14, 2007
War btw Father nd Son

Who do u think will win?


posted by LurLar @ 12:19 AM   28 comments
Friday, October 5, 2007
Do you show GRATITUDE?
I dreamt that I went to Heaven and an angel was showing me around.We walked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels.

My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said,"This is the Receiving Section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received."I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets and scraps from people all over the world.

Then we moved on down a long corridor until we reached the second section. The angel then said to me, "This is the Packaging and Delivery Section.Here, the graces and blessings the people asked for are processed and delivered to the living persons who asked for them."I noticed again how busy it was there. There were many angels working hard in that station, since so many blessings had been requested and were being packed for delivery to Earth.

Finally at the farthest end of the long corridor we stopped at the door of a very small station. To my great surprise, only one angel was seated there, idly doing nothing.

"This is the acknowledgement Section," my angel friend quietly admitted to me. He seemed embarrassed."How is it that there's no work going on here?" I asked."So sad," the angel sighed. "After people receive the blessings that they asked for, very few send back acknowledgements".

"How does one acknowledge God's blessings?" I asked."Simple," the angel answered.

"Just say, "Thank you, Lord'.

"What blessings should we acknowledge?

'If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep ... you are richer than 75% of this world.

"If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish, you are among the top 8% of the worlds wealthy."

And if you get this on your own computer, you are part of the 1% in the world who has that opportunity."

Also ..."If you woke up this morning with more health than illness... you are more blessed than the many who will not even survive this day."

"If you have never experienced the fear in battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation are ahead of 700 million people in the world."

"If you can attend Church, Mosque or any religious meeting without fear of harassment, arrest, torture or death ... you are envied by, and more blessed than, three billion people in the world.

If you can hold your head up and smile, you are not the norm, you are unique to all those in doubt and despair.

"If you can read this message, you just received a double blessing in that someone was thinking of you as very special, and, you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world who cannot read at all.

Have a good day, nd count your blessings. " Remember your Lord has declared that, 'If you are grateful then I (HE) will add more favours unto you'".

Attn: Acknowledge Dept.:"Thank You Lord! Thank you Lord, for giving me the ability to share this message and for giving me so many wonderful people to share it with."


posted by LurLar @ 11:28 PM   20 comments
Saturday, September 29, 2007
What kinda MAN are you?
Thnks Queen for hooking me up with this post. If you wanna read the female version click here.

Types of Men
1. Mr. Thug Life
a. Real good at making love
b. Fun and exciting
c. Makes you laugh
d. Has your back, will fight and protect you
a. Usually drinks and smokes too much
b. Always got drama
c. Stays a thug forever
d. In and out of jail

2. Mr. I dont have a girl
a. Will take you out in the beginning
b. Will introduce you to all his friends
c. Compliments you all the time
a. Has a girlfriend who he's been with since the 2nd grade
b. Will not get rid of her
c. He tells you about her after you've fallen in love with his ass

3. Mr. Big Baller
a. Will give you money with no questions asked
b. Has a lot of style to him
c. Will show you some of the nice things in life
a. Never returns your pages
b. Feels he can come to your house at any given time without calling first
c. Loves to be around his boys more than you.
4. Mr. I'm in the industry
a. Can get you and your friends on the guest list at all the best parties in town.
b. Can have a decent stimulating conversation.
c. He is a dress to kill guy.
a. You don't know if he's gay, straight or bi
b. Seems flighty when you speak of a solid commitment
c. You still have to wait in line to get in all the jumpin parties, then there's drama at the door
d. All he has is a bunch of pictures with celebrities but he doesn't know them personally
5. Mr. intellectual
a. Book smart
b. Cares about how you feel
c. Has a very good job
a. Boring as hell
b. Doesn't know what the hell he's doin in bed
c. He is not street smart
d. Always asking you when can he see you again
6. Mr. Ghetto
b. Makes you laugh
c. Got mad style and flava
d. Has a temper, but generally a charming sweet guy
e. Says/looks like he wants a real relationship
a. He got 3 or more baby mommy's
b. Wants to lay up in your crib, use the phone, and eat up all the food
c. Is in denial when you tell him about himself
d. Comes home at 3:00 am and says he was out with his boys

7. Mr. I'm a rightoues black man
a. Will teach you about black history
b. Revolutionary
c. Inspiring & gives to you spiritually & emotionally life lessons
d. Wants a wife and family./The african way.
a. Breaks up with you for a white girl
b. Mo money-doesn't have a job
c. Doesn't own a nice suit, always wearing camouflage
d. In the end, you find out he is just a trifling, con mothafucka

8. Mr. Too damn good
a. Will introduce you to his mother
b. Has a job and will take you out
c. Will give you money for your bills
d. Sometimes he goes to church on Sunday
a. Secretly wants to be Mr. Thug Life
b. Wears fake Movado & Rolex watches when he goes to the club
c. Ignores you when the game is on
d. You find out after you break up with him that he was cheating on you

9. Mr. Player
a. Will tell you that you're not the only one
b. Sometimes he's fairly decent in bed
c. He tells you that you've changed him and he's ready to settle down
d. Has his own apartment and car (invites you to move in with him)
a. He doesn't acknowledge you in public, especially if there's women around
b. Generally he is a punk (won't stand up for anything)
c. He expects you to believe all his lies
d. After you catch his liyin' ass, he tells you that he told you that he was a playa in the beginning anyway.

10. Mr. I have a job
a. Of course.... he has a job

b. Doesn't have too many bad habits
c. Will take care of you when you're sick
d. Tells you that he is in love with you
a. You stay in the relationship 2 years or more and then find out he's a shiftless, lazy son-of-a-bitch who wants you to do all the wifely duties but won't give you a ring
b. He ends up telling you that he loves you, but is not "in love" with you
c. After he leaves you he gets married a month later

11. Mr. Best friend
a. He's your best friend, you tell each other everything, you get along very well .
b.He gives you advice when you and your man are having problems
c. The ultimate gentleman
d. Sweet and caring with a good sense of humor
a. You end up hooking up with him

12. Mr. Right
Who told you there is Mr.Right? Except if you going to stay in ur father's house forever.Trust me all guys have a lil bit of something wrong somewhere. May God bless us with the right person that suits our personality.


posted by LurLar @ 11:01 AM   26 comments
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Are you going thru ups nd downs?
There are times that we feel lost,down,worhtless,e.t.c....dial or click on this emergency numbers to get you up nd kicking again. Try it,it's worth it.

When -
You have sinned, phone Psalm 51
You are facing danger, phone Psalm 91
People have failed you, phone Psalm 27
It feels as though God is far from you, phone Psalm 139
Your faith needs stimulation, phone Hebrews 11
You are alone and scared, phone Psalm 23
You are hurt and critical, phone 1 Corinthians 13
You wonder about Christianity, phone 2 Corinthians 5:15-18
You feel like an outcast, phone Romans 8:31-39
You are seeking peace, phone Matthew 11:25-30
You need Christ like insurance, phone Romans 8:15-17
You are leaving home for a trip, phone Psalm 121
You require courage for a task, phone Joshua 1
Your bank account is empty, phone Psalm 37
It looks like people are unfriendly, phone John 15
Paul's secret for happiness, phone <>Colossians 3:12-17
With big opportunity/ discovery, phone Isaiah 55
To get along with other people, phone Romans 12
For security, call Psalm 121:3
For assurance, call Mark 8:35
For reassurance, call Psalm 145:18

You might just run thru this post,nd think it is a waste of time.Am sure if it's a sexual arousal topic some people will read it word for word.(am not trying to condemn,am also guilty as charged). Dnt be afraid to's less than 1min.


posted by LurLar @ 3:47 PM   26 comments
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
What kinda of lady are you?
There are different kinds of ladies out there ya'all.Ladies which one are you? Guys which one do you want you lady to be?


1. Ms. Gold-Digger

a. You have someone to manage your money.
b. She always looks good.
c. She makes your other boys jealous.
d. She makes you look good.

a. When you get broke she'll be gone and take what you have left.
b. She makes sure she has a child by you to sue you for child support.
c. Once your boy comes up she'll be on his arm the next day.

2. Ms. Freak (secret lover)

a. She knows all the right positions.
b. She'll try everything more than once.
c. You're never unsatisfied.
d. She'll do all the things your girl won't do.
e. She doesn't mind being your freak, as long as she catches one too.

a. Eventually, because she's a female, she'll end up catching feelings.
b. She starts to act like she's your "main".
c. She messes with ya boy and act like you in the wrong for telling that she's a freak.
d. Eventually her stuff gets old. And you need a replacement.

3. Ms. Independent

a. You don't have to worry about buying her anything. She got it.
b. She's intelligent, sassy, confident and determined.
c. She's great for (business) conversation.
d. She keeps it real and has goals.
e. She knows how to please a man.

a. She will continuously let you know, that she can handle it on her own.
b. She will eventually say forget you and get a dildo.
c. She will consider you another one her play toys, or goals.

4. Ms. Dyme

a. She's top of the line.
b. She stays looking like a fantasy.
c. She has the body of a goddess with the face to match.
d. She considers herself a "model"
e. All the girls envy her, but she doesn't care.

a. She's superficial. She cares only about her looks.
b. She honestly lacks confidence and will annoy you about the way she looks.
c. She's probably dumb as hell and if she's not her personality is dry.
d. You have to constantly keep your game up because every kat is gonna try to get her.

5. Ms. Tomboy

a. She's cool and laid back.
b. She'll be willing to play rough with you.
c. Of course, she loves sports.
d. Her body is athletically divine.
e. She's easy to talk to and fun to be around.
f. She's a diamond in the rough.

a. She'll remind you too much of your boy.
b. She might not want to change her appearance.
c. She might actually beat you in basketball, football and track.

6. Ms. Ghetto

a. She's not afraid of any other female or male. She will fight to keep you.
b. She's down for you. She'll be there to bail you out of jail.
c. She's always stays fresh.
d. She can cook up a storm. She can make the best out of a bad situation.
e. She keeps it real and keeps you satisfied.

a. She doesn't know how to act in public.
b. Your mom can't stand her.
c. You get into it with her every other second.
d. She's willing to fight another girl looking at you PERIOD!!!!.
e. Her weave colors are distracting and her vocabulary is minimal .

7. Ms. Good Girl

a. She's always there for you.
b. She's intelligent, classy, kind, sweet and cool.
c. Your mother loves her.
d. You can see yourself falling in love with her.
e. You are her first everything.
f. She makes you feel like a man.
g. 8/10 you will be her first sex partner

a. She's an A or B situation either: A. You're not gonna get any until ya'll are married or she will make you wait A LONG TIME or at least till he feel like you really like her and not just tryin to get some.. or.... B. She said she never done it she said she never tried she's sitting there telling a lie.

8. Ms. Main

a. She is the one you respect.
b. She probably may know about the others but might not care.
c. She has all the qualities you want in a female.
d. You've been with her forever.

a. She starts getting very suspicious and calls you every moment.
b. She will devise a plan to catch you in your act and then kick your ass.

9. Ms. Psycho

a. She's fun and spontaneous.
b. She's down to earth.
c. She loves you unconditionally.
d. Everything about her is too good to be true. So everyone loves her.
e. She makes you feel loved.

a. Don't you break up with her. She will stalk your ass.
b. She keeps pictures of you everywhere and knows everything about you.
c. She can manipulate the hell out of you.
d. She will consider herself wifey even if she may just be that chick on the side.
e. Messing with her can make your life a living hell.

10. Ms. I have a Man.

a. She may have a man but she'll mess with you anyway.
b. She looks good.
c. You have an intense night of passion with her.

a. She'll always come crying to you about the problems with her man.
b. She'll get you caught up and then leave you anyway for her man.
c. If you piss her off she'll get her man to come beat your ass.
d. She'll unofficially make you her man once she gets pissed off at her real man.

11. Ms. Tease

a. She's tempting and a nice piece of eye candy.
b. She's intelligent, athletic, respectable and SEXXXXXXY.
c. She knows how to turn you on without touching you.
d. Everything she does is just so sensual.
e. She can bring you to that point and make you wait to get it.
f. Every time you see her you catch a mini orgasm.
g. Every kat wants her cause she's so mysterious and that makes you want to get her first.

a. NO matter what you think or do you never get it.
b. She probably has a long distance boyfriend somewhere that you will never know about.
c. She gets you hard and leaves you like that. (Unbearable)


a. She is not sexy, fine, or a dyme but she is BEAUTIFUL and therefore encompasses all of these descriptions.
b. She is intelligent, sassy, funny, outgoing, determined, strong and classy.
c. She can cook or at least order a meal that is just like your mother's.
d. Her personality is just as beautiful as her body.
e. She believes in God and follows his virtues.
f. She knows that a relationship requires a 200% quota yet she gives her man an extra 10%.
g. She can please her man in anyway. Mentally, Spiritually, and Sexually.
h. She makes you recognize your full potential as a man and completes you.
i. She's always there for, no matter what your dreams are.
j. She's not afraid to tell you the truth and set you straight.
k. You can talk to her and confide in her, she's your best friend.
l. You love being around her more than your boys.
m. You can share your most intimate moments with her without sex.
n. You can have a bad argument with her and then have the BEST Mind Numbing and passionate love making fest ever.
o. She's always willing to find a way to work out your problems and will often take most of your shit. But she's also intelligent enough to leave.
p. She's nothing like any other girls you've met. She's your woman. THE RIGHT ONE

Disadvantage: You've probably met her, or had her in your life but got too consumed with Mrs 1- Mrs 11 that you let her go !


posted by LurLar @ 7:34 PM   27 comments
Thursday, August 30, 2007
The funniest groom ever.....

I can't imagine what was going thru the lady's head. What do you think?


posted by LurLar @ 1:35 PM   19 comments
Friday, August 17, 2007
What is d true definition of a church?.....
A church should be a place where can communicate to God in one accord...

A church should be a place where i can talk to my fellow bethren or my pastor about my life problems without being backstabbed....

A church should be a place that will not judge me for past my actions....

A church should be a place that is free of bacbitters,that only worry about other pple,nd not their own problems.

A church should be a place that is used for the center of salvation,nd not center of making money....

A church should be a place that when am told I LOVE YOU...nd they should mean it.

A church should be a place where i can sing,nd express my feelings freely to my God without sister jane being jealous of me.

A church should be a place that is clique free....If you are not in my cool clique, am free to backbite nd say horrible things about you.

A church should be a place that self worth should be the last thing to think about.

There are many more things going on in churches all over the world that's not even meant to be.

Are we really working for the salvation of our souls,or for the salvation of human approval?

One of my favorite song writers wrote nd sang a song saying: When everything is going on smooth nd fine for careful,bcos very few pple are happy with you progress. Who are the very few pple? The pple that are smiling to your face,nd yet they are wishing you the worst scenario, or pple that dnt show you their eye service expression,but still they wish you the best.

Sometimes i think to myself are we really christians?

I know we are not perfect,but what are you doing to get better?


posted by LurLar @ 2:36 PM   13 comments

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